Vikram is keeping this going. He is not moving it forward. Seven plans were made here and none of them happened.
You sent 13 messages into those silences. Each time, the one who reopened it was you.
Across the 4 readings this chat could show, 22 out of 100. Every number here is counted from the messages themselves, not judged.
You send 25 of the 45 messages, and 9 of the 14 conversations start with you.
When one person consistently does the work of checking in, re-initiating, and reassuring, it can reflect an effort to hold the connection steady against uncertainty.
You send 13 messages during his 5 silences, initiate 9 of 14 conversations, and your median reply is 4 minutes against his 4 hours 55 minutes. You ask 'how was your day' with no matching question back, and you say 'it's ok' after his missed plans with no comparable line from him.
A stretch where he initiates more than you, or checks in during a gap you created, would shift this. That isn't in the 45 messages.
If you want to read more: Attached (Amir Levine and Rachel Heller, 2010); A Secure Base (John Bowlby, 1988).
This is shown because the same counting applied to you as to him; it's not a verdict on either of you.